The scene went just as you imagined. You were topping, and your bottom followed your instructions to the letter: wearing the outfit you’d picked out, waiting for you kneeling on the bed. Their trembling got you so hot you almost forgot your nervousness as you laid out your toys. You tied them up, … [Read more...] about After Your Scene: Coping With “Top Drop”
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If you’ve Googled “subspace,” you may have been frustrated by pages of articles on linear algebra and Star Trek. But experienced kinksters know that subspace is a mental place a submissive, bottom or masochist can go in a scene. What exactly is it, how do you get there, and why would you want to go … [Read more...] about Subspace: What It Is, Why It’s Hot, and How to Get There
[Content warning: This is a 101 guide to the current preferred terms for sexualities and genders. We’re going to talk about slurs here, in order to be clear about what terms are considered offensive. We know these terms are hurtful to many people. However, we also know that there are people who want … [Read more...] about Pansexual, Omnisexual, Cishet and More: A Glossary of Sexualities and Genders
For most bottoms out there who enjoy pain, happy brain chemicals called endorphins create their jollies. Even to a heavy masochist, pain hurts. But the body has a way of responding to pain and stress that can make it hurt so good. This might be important for folks with depression, who have trouble … [Read more...] about Sexy Solutions: How Endorphins From Kink Play Can Help Depression
Sexting seems like a fantastic way to heat up your relationship. That is, until you’re showing Grandma photos from your beach vacation, and up pops a naked photo texted by your holiday hookup. Some people will tell you, "Well, don’t send any dirty texts or photos!” That’s about as realistic an … [Read more...] about How to Keep Your Naughty Texts and Photos Private