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The scene went just as you imagined. You were topping, and your bottom followed your instructions to the letter: wearing the outfit you’d picked out, waiting for you kneeling on the bed. Their trembling got you so hot you almost forgot your nervousness as you laid out your toys. You tied them up, … [Read more...] about After Your Scene: Coping With “Top Drop”

People in the BDSM “scene” often talk about “doing a scene.” Which is confusing, especially if you’re new. The phrase “the scene” refers to the BDSM community. The second “scene” in that sentence is something different. So what are kinksters talking about when they talk about “a scene,” as opposed … [Read more...] about What’s A Scene? How to Successfully Negotiate a BDSM Scene

Wanna try role playing this weekend? Not Live Action Role Playing, aka LARPing. Although, if that’s your thing, cool. But we’re talking about Hot Action Role Playing. Of all the ways to create or enliven a spark between you and a lover, role playing is the most practical because it’s free and it’s … [Read more...] about The Beginners Guide To Sexy Role Playing

Dominating your partner doesn’t have to be terrifying So you and a partner have been getting into some kinky stuff lately, and now your person wants you to try dominating them. If your first response is something like “Help, what do I do?!?” then you’ve come to the right place. Some people’s … [Read more...] about The Beginner’s Guide to Domination

The rules of dating have changed. Gone are the days of the stale “dinner and a movie” first date. What you do on a first date communicates who you are and what you enjoy. And if your date enjoys the same things, it’s a great first indicator that you’re compatible! First dates give an insight into … [Read more...] about What to Do on a First Date That’s More Exciting Than Dinner and a Movie