Do you remember the magic of the first time with your lover?
Getting to know each other, flirting, and seduction are what makes falling in love so much fun! But while lots of couples settle down, settle in, and stop having fun, others manage to extend that joyful sense of discovery into decades. One way to do this is role-playing.
Role-playing is a fun, free, easy way to recover a sense of newness, thrill, and urgency in an established relationship. All it takes is imagination and a willingness to commit to sexy silliness (although accents and wigs are optional extras.) Trying on a different you, or seeing your partner as if for the first time, is incredibly freeing. It gives you both license to emphasize parts of you that may be kept under wraps in regular life. You can be extra bitchy, super bossy, or really easy.
You may be surprised at how a little play-acting can turbocharge your libido. So harness the power of your dirtiest fantasies and have mind-blowing sex tonight.
Stuck for ideas? Here are 20 suggested role-playing scenarios to give you dramatic license. Some of these scenarios are gender specific, but don’t let that keep you from trying something that intrigues you. Any scene can be adapted to suit the identities of the players. So read on. And prepare for hot times.
WARNING: Certain situations can be triggering for some people. So always discuss the scene you want to do before beginning, make sure you and your lover are both into it, and agree on a safe word in case one of you needs to stop. And these scenarios are meant to be between two consenting adults. Don’t use it as an excuse to hit on your actual secretary, your student or your nearest caveman.
1. Strangers at a Bar
This is your ideal role-playing starter scene because it’s so easy and soooo hot. You agree to meet your love at a bar and pretend to be strangers laying eyes on each other for the first time. Have a couple drinks. Make some flirty small talk. And whenever you’re both ready, take them home and close the deal. And while a bar is the traditional meeting place, this scene works well in a library, at a bus stop, even in church. Let your imagination run wild. You may find yourselves returning to this one over and over again.
2. Bored Housewife and Door to Door Salesman
This role-playing classic is great for a holiday Monday if you’re both off work during the day. Agree on a time for your partner to ring your bell, then answer the door. Costumes and props work well here. A sexy negligee and a martini gives a hot Mad Men vibe. Invite the tired man in for a refreshing glass of lemonade, make small talk about your window treatments, then seduce him on the dining room table. This scene can be adapted for different gender roles. One variation is Novelist and Avon Lady. There’s no limit other than your imagination.
3. Royalty and Attendant
This is a luxurious role-playing scene for when one of you wishes to be pampered to the extreme. You can be Cleopatra being bathed by her lady in waiting, Henry VIII being served at table by a footman, or Lord/Lady Grantham giving careful instructions to the new upstairs maid: “Come along, Brigitte, and bring your feather duster. We’ll begin in the Master’s bedroom.”
4. Doctor and Patient
The dirty childhood game transfers well to grown-up life because it allows one of you to be professionally distant while touching and tending to the other’s body. Prescribe whatever treatment you think best, Doctor.
5. Escort and Client
This one is fun to start during the work day. The client calls the escort to make an appointment, perhaps describing the specific service they require. Then the escort arrives at the agreed upon place and time and gets down to business.
6. Boss and Secretary
Sometimes things happen when you’re both working late. So remember your steno pad, your efficient attitude and who you’re working for. Play your cards right and you might get a very special bonus.
7. Teacher and Student
Maybe Teacher has to keep the Student after class for a stern lecture (and a few smacks with a ruler.) Maybe the student needs a little tutoring before tomorrow’s anatomy quiz. Or perhaps they want to beg the Professor to turn their B into an A. It’s entirely up to you.
8. Master and Slave
Are you the slave? Your body is theirs. Your purpose is to serve their every pleasure.
9. Study Buddies
You’re just friends helping each other cram for the chemistry exam. You’re way too shy to try anything. But there’s always been chemistry …
10. Pirate and Wench/Cabin Boy
Lower the mizzen mast and get that booty. (Ladies can be pirates too!)
11. Pilot and Flight Attendant
The Captain has turned off the Fasten Seatbelts sign. You are now free to move about the cabin, lock yourself in the cockpit, and turn on Auto Pilot.
12. Football Captain/Cheerleader
This game means everything to the team. Show your school spirit and give your captain a private pep rally in the locker room.
13. Photographer and Model
They LOVE what you’re doing. Just make it a little fiercer. That’s it! You gorgeous animal. Now undo that top button …
14. Caveman Sex
No talking necessary. Just decide which one drags the other back to the cave.
15. Doll and Collector
A treasured toy may be styled, posed, dressed, and undressed by their adoring owner.
16. Cowboy and Saloon Girl/Farmer’s Daughter/Other Cowboy
You really can’t go wrong with a cowboy scene.
17. Cop and Motorist
How can you possibly talk your way out of this ticket?
18. Warden and Prisoner
Wanna earn some extra yard time tomorrow? I have a little problem I could use your help with. My office. Tonight.
19. Personal Trainer and Client
You want abs of steel? You’re gonna have to sweat for them. Push it. Again. Good workout. Time for your shower and rubdown.
20. Pizza Delivery Driver and Lonely Single
This porno standby is a fun way work up an appetite. Bonus points for delivering an actual pizza.