Being submissive in the kink scene can feel like having a literal target on your back! If you’re new to the scene, meeting the right dominant can be tough – and being vulnerable to them, even tougher. The most critical thing in submission is always safety. Nothing in life worth doing can be … [Read more...] about Submission Safety Tips
Whipless, Ropeless, but Never Hopeless! How to Dominate Without a Toybag
Maybe you’re not into all the toys, gadgets, and orgizmos that BDSM seems to require—or you just don’t have any around. What if you could dominate someone using nothing but your body, brain, and voice? Kink toys can be expensive. They can get between you and the up-close, primal experience you want … [Read more...] about Whipless, Ropeless, but Never Hopeless! How to Dominate Without a Toybag
Pervertables 201: The Advanced Class!
Creative Ways to use Household Items as Sex Toys, Part Two We’ve already given you some tips for how you can turn things you already have lying around into sex toys. But what if you’re a bit kinkier or just want to increase the intensity of your sex play without emptying your wallet? Take it up a … [Read more...] about Pervertables 201: The Advanced Class!
After Your Scene: Coping With “Top Drop”
The scene went just as you imagined. You were topping, and your bottom followed your instructions to the letter: wearing the outfit you’d picked out, waiting for you kneeling on the bed. Their trembling got you so hot you almost forgot your nervousness as you laid out your toys. You tied them up, … [Read more...] about After Your Scene: Coping With “Top Drop”
What’s A Scene? How to Successfully Negotiate a BDSM Scene
People in the BDSM “scene” often talk about “doing a scene.” Which is confusing, especially if you’re new. The phrase “the scene” refers to the BDSM community. The second “scene” in that sentence is something different. So what are kinksters talking about when they talk about “a scene,” as opposed … [Read more...] about What’s A Scene? How to Successfully Negotiate a BDSM Scene
