Ok…So you and your honey are traveling home together for the holidays and staying with family. Everyone all together in a tight space might sound like the makings of a great sex story, but not when those people are your blood relatives. Right? Actually, you can take advantage of holiday travel restrictions to heat up your sex during your trip.
Let’s look at this the way we look at holiday recipes and reverse engineer our way into hot holiday sex regardless of your travel destination and accommodations. There are many ingredients or contributing factors that go into a great sexual encounter. Here is a list of ingredients you can use to create your own sexy magic for holiday consumption.
Hot Holiday Travel Sex
- ¾ Cup of Desire
- 1 TBSP of Taboo
- A Pinch of Risk
- 1 Cup of Anticipation
- ½ Cup of Skill
- 350 Degrees of Space
- 15 Minutes of Time
So you are planning your travel and wanting to figure out how to incorporate sex into the equation. The great news is you can plan for quality over quantity and still greatly enjoy your partner sexually during holiday travel. Share this article with your partner(s) so the two or three of you can design your recipe for hot holiday sex.
We tend to desire what we can’t have. If you have straight hair you want curly. You have brown eyes? But you want blue. The great thing about the holidays is that the opportunities to have privacy are far and few between, which will only increase your desire to have sex. We all know that when we’re told we can’t have something, it makes us want it more. It is human nature. So use your restriction to help build your desire for your partner. Have a signal that you use to let the other know you are thinking of them sexually. This could be a certain glance, a hand signal, or your “safe” word for a different purpose. Your inability to have sex when you want to is going to increase your desire for each other and lead to better quality sex when you sneak it in later. So rather than being frustrated over your lack of freedom to do it when you want to, rejoice in the fact that your holiday sex is likely going to be hotter than ever.
Which brings me to taboo. When we think we are getting “away” with something that we aren’t supposed to be doing it gives us a natural rush of adrenaline. Before you head out of town, agree with your partner that you will both be looking and thinking of places and ways that you can “sneak” in sex right under the noses of your unsuspecting or, even better, your suspicious family.
Nothing heightens the thrill of Taboo like the risk of being caught.Compare notes with your lover on the places and times they came up with in the taboo exercise. The riskier the time and location, the bigger the thrill.. So if you want to increase the quality of your sexual encounter, pick the riskiest of the options and times for an exhilarating sexual tryst.
It is best to have your time and place be at least several hours or more from the time you decide where and when you will have your sexual rendezvous. This will give each party time to anticipate the risk and build excitement for the naughty activities you have been planning in your head. By giving yourself time to fantasize, your arousal and excitement will only grow as the clock ticks closer to your risky taboo sex. The more time you give yourself, the more aroused you will be both be by the time you give in to your desires.
Nothing will excite your lover like a skillful maneuver or act. Brush up on your oral skills, bring a fun toy that you know how to use, or simply be very intent on performing at your maximum skill level. When all your senses are heightened through hours of anticipation, your sexy skills will drive your performance home, along with the help of adrenaline and endorphins at an all time holiday high.
First decide if you would prefer to be potentially caught by a stranger or family member. This will help you limit or open up your options. For example, if it is more risky in your mind for a family member to find you, then you will want to look for a room or outdoor area where you are staying. Otherwise, you can utilize places while traveling, like your car, airplane, or even an outdoor area that is obstructed from view most of the time (or not). Sometimes the smaller the space, the more exciting it is…or if you’re claustrophobic, an open-air outdoor space might be perfect for you if weather permits.
Knowing you have a limited amount of time can add to the adventure. Try to time your escapade when you must be back to the group within 15 minutes. Having to rush to get ready and get back to the group is half the fun. With a bit of luck, even if you don’t get caught in the act your faces will still be flush and painted with a satisfied smirk that will be a dead giveaway to your friends and family. That will be the cherry on the top of your sexy dessert of quality naughty holiday sex.
So what happens if you actually do get caught in the act?!? Well, hopefully it will be a joyful addition to the stories you tell your best friends over cocktails at holiday parties and New Year’s Eve. At the very least, it will be a story you can reminisce about or seek to outdo with your lover for years to come. 🙂
For more inspiration for a sexy and memorable holiday, check out our 5 Steps In Preparing A Memorable Holiday “Meal” and Fun Ways To Give Thanks This Holiday Season With Your Mouth!