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For most bottoms out there who enjoy pain, happy brain chemicals called endorphins create their jollies. Even to a heavy masochist, pain hurts. But the body has a way of responding to pain and stress that can make it hurt so good. This might be important for folks with depression, who have trouble … [Read more...] about Sexy Solutions: How Endorphins From Kink Play Can Help Depression

If you’ve heard of the Kama Sutra, the name alone probably paints a picture in your head. You can almost smell the sandalwood incense and hear the sound of gentle chimes as the fantasy takes hold. Your lover’s hands slide on your skin to the rhythm of a meditative chant as you move from one … [Read more...] about 11 Things You Didn’t Know About the Kama Sutra

Tis the season to be sexy! The holiday season is here. Get ready for kissing under the mistletoe, slow dancing to your favorite Christmas carols and exchanging sentimental (and sexy) gifts with your lover. The holidays are filled with tons of fun things to do with family and friends, but the … [Read more...] about 8 Romantic Holiday Things To Do (That Aren’t Presents)

Junk. Package. Family jewels. The penis-and-testicles brand of genitalia has as many silly names as there are videos on the Internet of people getting hit in the balls. But for some kinksters, those nut-shots are more than portrayals of pain: they’re sexually enticing. Yes, while most people who … [Read more...] about The Painful Pleasures Of Cock And Ball Torture (CBT)

You’re on date #4 with this sexy new person, and everything is going great. You’re just thinking about how gorgeous their eyes look reflecting those twinkling lights when you realize it’s a week before Christmas. Now the question of the ages arises: this early in a relationship, to gift or not to … [Read more...] about 9 Holiday Rules for Early Dating Gifts