That spark and frisson between two people doesn’t keep lit on its own. It has to be tended. One way to stoke the fire is to send each other sexy check-ins throughout the day.
Some sexts are a one-off designed to send a flush straight through their bodies. Others are designed to get a dirty conversation flowing.
At a loss for words? Check out these sexy texts for a bit of inspiration:
- I just had the filthiest dream about you.
Whether you really did just have a wet dream or whether you are making it up to get the conversation started, this is a perfect way to segue into a fantasy.
- I’m so horny thinking about the way you fucked me last night.
Just share an amazing experience? Keep the flame hot until you see each other again.
- You should know I’m naked right now.
This is definitely going to start up some stirring in the pants. It’s also a great jumping off point for some mutual masturbation either on the phone or on camera.
- Tonight, I want you to tell me what to do. Make me obey.
Power exchanges can add some heat and variety. Building up some anticipation now can make times together later even hotter.
- I bet you could make me cum just playing with my nipples.
Telling him about your personal sensitive spots pays off.
- I need a spanking.
Telling them what you want can add a sizzling tease.
- I just got out of the shower. Wanna get me all dirty again?
This one has just enough detail to aid in some sexy visualization.
- Want to play escort and client? I want to know what you’d do to me if I was just there for your pleasure.
Role-play allows you to explore sensations and scenarios that you might not otherwise get into.
- You should see how good this dress makes my tits look.
Confidence is hot. A sexy photo would make this one even better.
- I’m so horny today. Want to help me cum?
This is also a great opener for getting to know each other’s bodies better and learning what each of you like.
Looking for something gender neutral? Our last four sexts can be used by anyone, no matter how you identify or what you have under your pants:
- I want you so bad. Can you come here right now?
Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want.
- Can’t wait to strip all your clothes off right inside the front door when you get here this weekend.
Not going to see each other for a bit? Build some anticipation.
- You’ll have to excuse any typos, I’m texting with one hand.
(Then, ask them to guess what you are doing with the other one.)
- What’s something you’ve always wanted to try in bed?
We learn by asking questions!
All of the above can be customized to fit you and your partner and what you each like. Once you’ve sexted a few times, you’ll find that it gets easier to think of things to say and to keep up your sexual rapport even when you can’t be in the same place.
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Go on and check out the full list of hot sexts that will make your partner eager to see you – and if you’re not registered with PleazeMe, now is the time to take the analysis and learn your Sex Sign!
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