That spark and frisson between two people doesn’t keep lit on its own. It has to be tended. One way to stoke the fire is to send each other sexy check-ins throughout the day.
Some sexts are a one-off designed to send a flush straight through their bodies. Others are designed to get a dirty conversation flowing.
At a loss for words? Check out these sexy texts for a bit of inspiration:
- I just had the filthiest dream about you.
Whether you really did just have a wet dream or whether you are making it up to get the conversation started, this is a perfect way to segue into a fantasy.
- I’m so horny thinking about the way you fucked me last night.
Just share an amazing experience? Keep the flame hot until you see each other again.
- You should know I’m naked right now.
This is definitely going to start up some stirring in the pants. It’s also a great jumping off point for some mutual masturbation either on the phone or on camera.
- Tonight, I want you to tell me what to do. Make me obey.
Power exchanges can add some heat and variety. Building up some anticipation now can make times together later even hotter.
- I bet you could make me cum just playing with my nipples.
Telling him about your personal sensitive spots pays off.
- I need a spanking.
Telling them what you want can add a sizzling tease.
- I just got out of the shower. Wanna get me all dirty again?
This one has just enough detail to aid in some sexy visualization.
- Want to play escort and client? I want to know what you’d do to me if I was just there for your pleasure.
Role-play allows you to explore sensations and scenarios that you might not otherwise get into.
- You should see how good this dress makes my tits look.
Confidence is hot. A sexy photo would make this one even better.
- I’m so horny today. Want to help me cum?
This is also a great opener for getting to know each other’s bodies better and learning what each of you like.
- My sheets still smell like you.
Scent is the sense most closely associated with memory. Let them know how much you love and crave the smell of them.
- I was just shopping for sex toys. Wanna see what I got us?
Experimentation keeps your sex life fresh.
- What dirty things would you do to me if you were here right now?
Open-ended questions can lead the conversation in some surprising directions.
- When you get here, I’m going to take you in my mouth.
Give him something to anticipate.
- This conference call is so boring. Would it be bad if I started masturbating right now?
(Note: make sure you’re on mute.)
- I’m getting so hot thinking about how hard I cum when you lick my clit.
The more specific you get, the hotter the conversation.
- I want to pull you into the shower with me, get you all soapy, and give you a hand job while you’re nice and slick.
Get as detailed as you want to when you are weaving a fantasy.
- I’ve gotten off three times today thinking about you.
Sometimes what your partner needs to hear is how much you get off on them.
- I’m sitting in this meeting hoping no one can tell how wet I am. I’m supposed to be paying attention, but I’m wishing you were here bending me over this desk instead.
Sometimes what you need is a feeling of being bad. Discreet sexting can add a little fun to a day.
- I need your cock inside me right now.
Tactile details amp up the heat.
Looking for something gender neutral? Our last four sexts can be used by anyone, no matter how you identify or what you have under your pants:
- I want you so bad. Can you come here right now?
Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want.
- Can’t wait to strip all your clothes off right inside the front door when you get here this weekend.
Not going to see each other for a bit? Build some anticipation.
- You’ll have to excuse any typos, I’m texting with one hand.
(Then, ask them to guess what you are doing with the other one.)
- What’s something you’ve always wanted to try in bed?
We learn by asking questions!
All of the above can be customized to fit you and your partner and what you each like. Once you’ve sexted a few times, you’ll find that it gets easier to think of things to say and to keep up your sexual rapport even when you can’t be in the same place.
Make sure your sexts don’t get seen by prying eyes – read our article How To Keep Your Naughty Texts and Photos Private right now!