For most bottoms out there who enjoy pain, happy brain chemicals called endorphins create their jollies. Even to a heavy masochist, pain hurts. But the body has a way of responding to pain and stress that can make it hurt so good. This might be important for folks with depression, who have trouble … [Read more...] about Sexy Solutions: How Endorphins From Kink Play Can Help Depression
Junk. Package. Family jewels. The penis-and-testicles brand of genitalia has as many silly names as there are videos on the Internet of people getting hit in the balls. But for some kinksters, those nut-shots are more than portrayals of pain: they’re sexually enticing. Yes, while most people who … [Read more...] about The Painful Pleasures Of Cock And Ball Torture (CBT)
You’re on date #4 with this sexy new person, and everything is going great. You’re just thinking about how gorgeous their eyes look reflecting those twinkling lights when you realize it’s a week before Christmas. Now the question of the ages arises: this early in a relationship, to gift or not to … [Read more...] about 9 Holiday Rules for Early Dating Gifts
Consent is the new black. On college campuses, in Hollywood, online and off, everybody is talking about it. We all need to communicate better about sex. But social conditioning, media images, and a lack of education get in the way. People tend to think that asking for and giving consent for sexytime … [Read more...] about Making Consent Sexy
So you think you’re kinky! Congratulations: you’ve joined a growing movement of folks who are expanding their sexual repertoire beyond Masters & Johnson. Kinky sexuality is an enormous field, filled with beautiful, spiky leather flowers, and it can take time and exploration to figure out what … [Read more...] about Top, Bottom, Dominant, Submissive, Sadist, Masochist – What’s the Difference?