The scene went just as you imagined. You were topping, and your bottom followed your instructions to the letter: wearing the outfit you’d picked out, waiting for you kneeling on the bed. Their trembling got you so hot you almost forgot your nervousness as you laid out your toys. You tied them up, … [Read more...] about After Your Scene: Coping With “Top Drop”
Archives for April 2019
Polyamory For Beginners: How To Open Your Relationship
You’ve realized you’re capable of loving more than one person. You’ve got a like-minded partner excited to open your relationship to additional loves. You are ready to set off on the adventure that is polyamory. Congratulations. You’ve come a long way toward living a life that is authentic to you … [Read more...] about Polyamory For Beginners: How To Open Your Relationship
Downward Doggie Style (Turn Your Yoga Practice Into Hot Sex)
Did you know that your favorite yoga poses reveal a secret sexy side when you take them into the bedroom? If you’ve never considered the possibility that yoga could be sexy, think about how you feel after a class. Relaxed, energized, and blissful, which is ideal for enjoying sex. Now remember that … [Read more...] about Downward Doggie Style (Turn Your Yoga Practice Into Hot Sex)
What’s A Scene? How to Successfully Negotiate a BDSM Scene
People in the BDSM “scene” often talk about “doing a scene.” Which is confusing, especially if you’re new. The phrase “the scene” refers to the BDSM community. The second “scene” in that sentence is something different. So what are kinksters talking about when they talk about “a scene,” as opposed … [Read more...] about What’s A Scene? How to Successfully Negotiate a BDSM Scene
The Beginners Guide To Sexy Role Playing
Wanna try role playing this weekend? Not Live Action Role Playing, aka LARPing. Although, if that’s your thing, cool. But we’re talking about Hot Action Role Playing. Of all the ways to create or enliven a spark between you and a lover, role playing is the most practical because it’s free and it’s … [Read more...] about The Beginners Guide To Sexy Role Playing